Sunday, January 22, 2012

Birthday Celebrations

Two days, two birthdays. We started off Thursday morning with Drake's celebration! He was totally pumped and knew it was his special day. Remember, this is the kid who argued with me at Christmas, yelling it was HIS birthday, not Jesus! (Yes, we did some remediation of the Christmas story after that.) In any case, we did it up big!

His door had streamers across the bottom for him to break thru.

He had a balloon, and presents waiting at his seat for breakfast. And, his chair decorated!He was confused by the crepe paper, and wanted me to help bust through it.
The dogs were ready to bust in!
He did it!
His big present was a train set from Ikea, and it was a huge hit.

And later that night, time for cake and ice cream.

Blowing out candles!

And now for Friday...

Birthday Girl!!! She had no clue what all the fuss was about:-) Of course, she'd only been awake about 3 minutes.
Later that night, we had her own little celebration with cake and candles, and a joyous singing (shouting by Drake) of "Happy Birthday to You".



Birthdays! Great Wolf Lodge

Drake and Tessa's birthdays were on a Thursday and Friday. They both turned three! It was exciting for many reasons. One, Drake totally got it this year. And that was totally cool to watch. He loved it! Two, it was Tessa's first birthday celebration. While it meant a lot to us, she was clueless and we tried to keep it low key. Eric's parents flew down from Buffalo, and were able to go to Drake's party. The next day, we headed to Great Wolf Lodge for a night. It was fun, but will be more enjoyable as the kids get older. Here are some pictures from our time at the lodge:





These two loved the spraying water at the edge of the wave pool.




There was a little kids area they all three loved, but I didn't get any pictures there. I wasn't about to take my camera in there to get soaked!

Saturday, January 21, 2012

Tessa April 2011

Geez her hair grew a lot!



She still loves this type of ball, especially at swim lessons.

Tessa pictures!

Here are pictures of Tessa from last March. Her hair really grew between March and December. She started her sponsorship with PRO in February. They are checked up on monthly, and pictures taken. They are seen by a doctor and nurse. The sponsoring family gets quarterly updates. Interestingly, one of her updates included her CORRECT diagnosis, something we didn't get until back here in the US, and seen by a pediatric surgeon. At least PRO was on top of things, even if that didn't get back to the CCAA and our agency.

This photo was taken on Eli's birthday!
Maybe these were from an outing to a park with other PRO foster families? I can only guess.

So serious.


Friday, January 20, 2012

WOW! Just WOW!!!

I have an amazing story to tell. But, you better go potty and get a new drink, because it's a long one. So, sit down.

Last June, I posted on a message board related to Chinese adoption. I asked if anyone had any info, or had recently been to Changsha Social Welfare Institute #1. We were searching for any info on Tessa's orphanage, even though we were told she was in a foster home. Our understanding was that she'd been in the orphanage from about ten days old, until 13 months. Even while in foster care, the children fall under the umbrella of their SWI. No one really responded or had info, but then I received an email from someone named Diana. She told me she was part of an organization called Pearl River Outreach, PRO, and that they sponsored children to foster families. And one of their three locations in China was Changsha! It was with Tessa's specific orphanage. I was super excited, but it turned out they said Tessa was not part of their program. Poo! But, she did tell me that the orphanage director there was young and energetic, and really cared about the kids. That one little nugget of info made this Momma's heart smile!

So, fast forward to this past Sunday. Eric and I are in church while the 3 littles play in the nursery. David gave an amazing sermon, that I feel really speaks to me. You can go here to our church's website to find the sermon, but basically it was about humility, greed, pride, envy, and the such. I've been feeling very convicted to do something, anything about the orphan crisis. To make a difference somehow, other than simply bringing Tessa into our family. His sermon made me realize I needed to act on how I was feeling. I decided to investigate PRO and look into sponsoring a child there. I wanted to give a child from her orphanage the opportunities that Tessa didn't have. I sent an email to the address listed, and didn't get a response. So after 24 hours (I know I'm impatient) I left a comment on a blog that Diana writes. It's for her family, but I was pretty sure that Diana was the one affiliated with PRO, who had emailed me last summer. I asked if she was the Diana with PRO, and if so to email me, and figured once she did I'd ask all the questions about sponsorship.

Diana emailed me back that night. And then my world was ROCKED. The first email simply said she was indeed that Diana, and asked how she could help me.

The next email had the subject line "Harlow", with a message that said, "Oh my gosh.. Is she yours!!! :)". I had no idea who Harlow was, or what she was talking about. I just wanted to sponsor a kid.

The next one had the subject line "Tessa", and this was part of the message:
"I just flew through your blog! Congratulations on your beautiful girl!!!!
We love your sweet daughter!!!
We can definitely get you past photos of her...
Blessings as you settle in!!! Again, Congratulations from the Pearl River Team. It is always a blessing to connect with the forever families of our babies!!!!".

Y'all, I almost died. I totally cried. Not only would I be getting pictures and info about Tessa's life in China, but she was SPONSORED by an amazing organization that trains and checks up on foster families. Her being sponsored means she probably got care that she wouldn't have otherwise gotten. More than the pictures and info, knowing she was loved on means everything!!!
We've been wondering about her care in China, so at least we now know her last 10 months there were good.

That night, and since then, my inbox has been flooded by Diana. Pictures galore! Plus, copies of Tessa's quarterly update that went to her sponsoring family. This info is priceless! And not only that, I got to email and personally thank her sponsoring family!!!

I'll be busy the next few days getting all these pics uploaded into my computer and onto the blog. Plus, I can't wait to share little Gia with you that we are sponsoring. Actually, if you go here to PRO blog, you can see this little lovie the Kirsch family is now sponsoring. I hope her forever family has found her and is paper chasing away, but if not, I know they will soon. In the meantime, she has the five of us to sponsor her care and pray for her.

Before I end, I just want to say again, that I would've never gotten any of this info if I hadn't listened to my heart, and David's sermon. I contacted Diana to sponsor a child, but she followed my blog comment to our family blog. She saw Tessa's pictures and put it all together. To GOD be the glory for this miracle.





Thursday, January 19, 2012

The last of Christmas photos

So, back to Christmas. Got to finish that before I can move on to the January birthdays! On Christmas day, we drove to Florence during the kids nap time. It wasn't our original plan, but between everyone's work schedule, it was the only time that worked. We had a great celebration Sunday night, and then got to see a variety of family the next day!

Tessa met her Great Grandmother and Grandfather, Sissy and Boots. (Eric was in the shower and missed out on the pic).

This is her grumpy camera face at it's finest. I will be one HAPPY momma when I teach this kid to smile and say cheese when she sees a camera!

She got a doll from the movie Tangled, and proceeded to dig in the dirt with Rapunzel's (SP?) hairbrush.
Drake and Eli were totally in their element.
Can you just not believe how big this kid is? I sure can't!
Who cares about toys? Grandpa has a big pile of dirt!!! Jumping off it was a big hit. Drake went...
And McCall...
And Eli...
And Tessa! She doesn't really know how to jump, so she mostly slid down with Grandpa's help.
She was introduced to the gator. Big brother was plenty happy to oblige and drive her around.
And little brother taught her to hold on tight!
Eli got in a golf cart ride with Daddy.

Tessa got more hugs from Pryce. She loves her cousins!
Sweet Piper and Baylor:-)
I can't wait for next Christmas! Yes, I'm excited already. It's so much fun watching all their reactions and faces. Plus, next year Tessa and Eli will "get" it. These three are such blessings, and SO much fun. (And just in case you think everything is rainbows and ice-cream, they also fight like cats and dogs and sometimes listen to NOTHING I say.)

Now, onto birthday postings! Drake and Tessa turned three on the 5th and 6th!